If a guy says that he doesn’t enjoy dirty talk, don’t believe him.
Ok, there’s an exception to every rule, but most guys find this form of sexual play incredibly arousing.
In fact, many guys would even tell you that something like this could make them so sexually hungry that they would just want to ravage their partners like a wild sexual beast.
If that’s the case, then the next question becomes, “Why?” What is it about dirty talk that is such a huge turn on for men?
Let’s find out…
1. It’s Uncommonly Arousing
If you’re usually prim and proper, but inside the bedroom, you transform into a sultry woman who knows how to make a guy feel uneasy, in a positive way, your partner would feel really blessed. The sexy phrases you mumble would drive him nuts and would make him crave for more.
This kind of contradiction, from a goody two shoes into a saucy minx, gives him a sexy charge of excitement. Likewise, this also heightens his senses and, believe it or not, talking dirty to him makes everything more arousing.
2. It Makes A Guy Feel Divine
Your moans and screams are music to his ears. Also, telling him what you want him to do to you by using dirty directives like the ones found in Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire can set his loins on fire.
Because this makes him feel like a sex god. Every moan and whimper drives his libido to the next level.
3. Nothing’s Sexier Than Confidence
A woman who doesn’t feel embarrassed to describe what she wants, in detail, by using dirty phrases is very seductive. Men are usually drawn to women who feel confident about themselves and who aren’t afraid to express their sexual desires and release their inhibitions.
The use of dirty talk plants the idea in his mind that you’re in for a wild ride and are excited for the thrill that lies ahead. Don’t be surprised if he pulls out his A-game to impress you.
4. Dirty Talk Is A Great Way To Show That You’re In The Mood
Sexual enthusiasm instantly makes a man feel excited just like being quiet and standoffish can make him go limp. The latter makes him assume that you’re bored or not interested in him even if you are. This could really ruin the moment.
Talking dirty is a clear indication that you want him BADLY and there’s nothing that could stop you. This level of engagement makes him feel that he must pleasure and satisfy you all the way, giving you both a wonderful experience.
The reasons mentioned above also activate different chemicals inside a man’s body and flick on his sexual buttons, increase his sex drive, and make him focused on pleasuring you. It’s not theory. It’s science.
Many women don’t feel comfortable talking dirty, and if you’re one of them, don’t feel bad about it. It’s completely normal.
However, don’t let your fears stop you from adding a thrill to your sex life and letting your inhibitions run wild. There are plenty of ways you can master this art, overcome your shyness, and make your man want you even more.