Women do in fact fall for nice guys and guys who have one thing you lack: a strategy. This guide will help you do just that, come up with a strategy that will help you get the attention of the most sought after women in your circles.
So with that, let’s discuss some tips on how to approach and attract any woman you want.
1. Exude Confidence
When it comes to interacting with women, confidence is always the x-factor. According to Ask Men, looks and finances are secondary considerations when it comes to a first encounter.
Women are attracted to confidence because subconsciously it communicates to them that you possess the ability to go out into the world and provide for her and your children. Men commonly make the mistake of assuming that an attractive woman has her space crowded with men competing for her love. In fact, the opposite is more often true because few serious suitors have the confidence to approach her.
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By overcoming approach anxiety and taking the calculated risk of talking to her in a mature way, you can easily impress her. That’s how many “average” men end up with stunning beauties.
2. Be A Gentleman
Being crass and cocky is one of the biggest turnoffs for women. Don’t mistake cockiness for confidence. They are two very different things. One is a complete turn on. The other a complete turn-off.
When you approach a woman you find attractive, avoid “hitting on her”. Instead, talk to her in a mature and non-suggestive way. According to Men’s Health, you have a better chance of winning her over if you start a real conversation. Look for something the two of you have in common, no matter how minute, and talk about it.
While you don’t have to spend a fortune to show a woman you are worthy of her, you still have to go out of your way and do something nice. Take her out to a nice restaurant, listen to her, learn what she likes, and do it for her. Even if you are not loaded, investing your efforts in her can pay high dividends.
Stick to the gentleman protocol: hold the door open for her, pull back the chair for her, and give her your coat when it gets cold.
3. Display High Value
Women are innately very competitive beings, especially when it comes to attracting men. If a woman sees you with another woman who is more or equally gorgeous than her, she will often try harder to get you for herself.
When you are in social gatherings, the kind of people you talk to reveals the kind of woman you think you deserve. Talk to attractive and well-to-do people more often as this sends a message of your worth.
That’s not where the benefit ends though…
As you talk with more high value women, you get practice at handling attractive women. One of the best ways to attract women is to cap your eagerness. Again, this aspect appeals to an attractive woman’s innate desire for conquest. Treat her well and show interest, but do not say that you want her.
4. Groom Well And Take Good Care Of Your Body
You don’t have to be the most attractive man in the room to get women to look your way, but no woman wants to go out with a slob. Good grooming, even without expensive clothing, tells a woman you value your body, and she will feel attracted to you.
Good grooming doesn’t have to be hard. The basics work just fine. Wear clean, well-fitting, and nicely pressed clothes, get a haircut, and wear deodorant.
Hit the gym regularly to get your body in shape, and take exceptional care of your skin. Even if you aren’t naturally handsome, this can help you present the best version of you.
5. Do Not Be Too Possessive
Beautiful women attract a lot of attention from men, and rightfully so. If you can’t handle it and try to keep her from socializing, she’ll only resent you for it. Expressing a bit of jealously is fine. In fact, most women feel honored when a man is willing to fight for her. However, you can’t and shouldn’t try to keep her from talking to other men or sharing her beauty with the world.
David Deida, a relationship and body image expert, advises men to steal the attention of guys who are trying to steal a girl from them. If you’re a cool guy, most men won’t want to disrespect you.
The above tips are meant to help you approach and attract any woman you want. Where you go from there is totally up to you. Whether it’s making a new friend, having casual sexual encounters, or finding an incredible girlfriend, there are tons of beautiful women waiting to be a part of your life.